Dark Tantra Play Party

When September 30, 2018
12:30 pm - 5:00 pm


Iron Giant Loft



Single male tickets are SOLD OUT. There will be no individual male tickets available at the door, sorry! You can register for next month’s event: https://sacredkinksfoct18.eventbrite.com

We do still have just a few couples, women’s, and non-binary spots available. Looking forward to seeing you all there!

Have you ever fantasized about being immersed and inspired by a safe, cozy, and inspiring environment to explore the edge of your NeoTantric sensuality and kink sexuality?

Would you like to connect with like minded and sexy souls on a emotional, physical, spiritual and kink level? 😀

Would you like to learn intimate practices that help expand your receptivity and threshold for sacred yet kink pleasure and possibly sharper sensations?

Do you feel a desire to explore with confidence playing with new tools, toys and genders 😉

Do you desire to share erotic space with others from a place of deep self love overflowing through you?

And to experience being more in your orgasmic body before connecting with others?

Allow iX-Chel Sandivel to guide you through grounding and transcending Tantric breathing techniques, intimate practices of power and surrender as she co-leads Oakland’s Dark Tantra Play Party with Alex Sebastian Morgan!

It’ll be a day to remember being lead by two amazing facilitators who love everything sacred and kinky about sexuality. Come dance, play, be witnessed, celebrated in your yum raw sexual power! Explore your inner spiritual dominatrix as we celebrate the divinity of the body in all its flavors, kinks, and colors. Bring your toys, rope, floggers, blind folds, friends, and an open heart to the sweet intimacy and transformation possible at this event.

For new folks: If you’ve never had the opportunity to play with toys and are inspired to do so, please bring, borrow, buy some. Allow yourself to be inspired by your intuition to bring a toy that could be fun to play with!

This is an invitation to dive deeply into yourself and each other in ways you may have been afraid to do in the past. This is the play party you want to come to even if you’ve never been to a play party before.

We create an expansive, feeling-full environment charged with electricity, yet warmly grounded and earthy. A safe and sacred container for exploring connective play in a relaxed, sex-positive space. This play party encourages your curiosity about taking your own sensual play space to the next level.

Let us guide you through a series of NeoTantric techniques and conscious connective touch interactive games as we begin to take you on an intimate exploration of yourselves through one another.

Then, let us lead you through a welcome circle where a room of strangers slowly opens up and winds up on the same page, creating a consent-focused container – and setting intentions for the evening in a way that makes it easy to find compatible people to play, flirt, and connect with!

The evening is a celebration of imagination and curiosity, so you may experience as many flavors as you dare. Come dressed in something that makes you feel powerful, decadent, and sexy!

Who Should Attend

You are sensually, erotically and emotionally savvy enough to play nicely with others. You’re a good sharer, you take good care of your toys, and you use your words. 🙂 You are somebody who knows your own wants and boundaries and can communicate them clearly… and/or you’re someone willing to work and explore these areas for your own growth and enjoyment! You treat yourself and others with respect and kindness.

If you’re reading this, thinking, “I would love to come, but I’m not sure I want to play,” please come and enjoy the pressure-free company of like-minded individuals and exit whenever you wish. Really. There will be no pressure for you to do ANY activity at this party at any time.

Our biggest request is that you come with a fun-loving, warm, caring, open-minded, generous, thoughtful, compassionate, non-judgmental attitude and that you conduct yourself with the highest level of integrity possible.

This will be a very chill, fun, playful event where sex, kink, erotic energy play, and nudity will most likely occur. Come relax. Come sip a glass of something non-alcoholic or a cup of tea. Come smooch. Come play. Come watch and get inspired.

All genders, bodies, races, and orientations welcome 18+. Come as you are and have a great time!


Doors open at 12:30 PM and CLOSE AT 1:00 PM. BE ON TIME as it is essential to have everyone present for the opening circle. There will not be anyone admitted after the doors are closed to preserve the safety of our space. The Welcome Circle is what we use to introduce ourselves to one another, have a safer sex conversation, share any boundaries and relationship agreements people should know about, and get all comfy and ready to play. There will be an optional closing circle at 5 PM. PLEASE text Alex at (510) 480-0235 if you’re unavoidably running late, but please just be on time!


Iron Giant Loft, 1080 23rd Ave, Oakland, CA 94606

BART accessible; free on-street parking. Spacious private live/work loft in a residential building. Suite number provided after registration or contact Alex privately for pay-at-door: Alex@AlexSMorgan.com


First floor, no stairs or steps. All gender/single occupant restroom. Plenty of couch, chair, and cozy mattress space available.

The home is low-fragrance; we encourage attendees to also use unscented products so that everyone can play comfortably. There are two cats in residence; they will be in a closed back room during the event. There is a HEPA air purifier in the event space itself to reduce allergens.

Text or email Alex if you have any questions or concerns: (510) 480-0235 / Alex@AlexSMorgan.com

What to Bring

If you know you will need some food to ground with, please bring some food and/or non-alcoholic drink (kombucha ok) to share. (No alcohol or drugs please. We like our playmates to be present and capable of connection.)

Bring whatever sexy things you’d like to don and lounge in while we frolic or just throw on your favorite weekend clothes for relaxation. Bring along whatever safer sex accessories you desire – condoms, dental dams, gloves, toys, lube – whatever you might be needing to create that perfect afternoon. (We’ll have supplies available in the space just in case, but your favorites are always nice to have!)

Please use unscented products prior to the event so that people who have difficulty with scents can also play comfortably. Oh, and of course, please bring a playful attitude and an open heart and mind.


$28 women & nonbinary, $50 men, $65 couples

Please note that tickets may sell out early – if tickets sell out, there will be none available at door. Save your spot now:

ONLINE REGISTRATION: https://darktantraplaypartysept18.eventbrite.com

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This will be a very chill, fun, playful event where sex, kink, erotic energy play, and nudity will most likely occur. Come relax. Come sip a glass of something non-alcoholic or a cup of tea. Come smooch. Come play. Come watch and get inspired.

All genders, bodies, races, and orientations welcome 18+. Come as you are and have a great time!

Email, text, or call Alex if you have any questions or concerns: Alex@AlexSMorgan.com / (510) 480-0235

About Your Facilitators

IX-Chel Sandivel has been practicing Tantra Yoga for 8 years and one of her greatest joys is expressing shamanic ecstatic energy through transformational dance using tantric breathing techniques and Shamanic Fusion Dance Intuitive Technique. She’s a Level 4 Tantra Educator from Source Tantra Yoga, the most established school of Tantra in the west and recently completed a one year long program with Master Movement Director and Reverend Priestess Anandha Ray. Follow IX-Chel’s work at http://sandivel.com

Alex S. Morgan is a sex, intimacy, and relationship coach, a sacred intimate, and a professional switch (both dominant and submissive). Working directly with clients’ sexualities since 2004 has given Alex a deft sensitivity to the needs of people exploring new facets of themselves and an understanding of the power of connection in both our public and private lives. They are a proud graduate of both Barbara Carrellas’s Urban Tantra professional training and Shawn Roop’s Tantra Counselor program. A firm believer in continuing education and support for all adults exploring sex, gender, and relationships, Alex presents internationally on relationships, kink, sexuality, gender, and related policy issues at venues ranging from private workshops to public organizations, Stanford to SXSW. They offer workshops, facilitated events, and inservice trainings by request. Alex is available for both individual and couples coaching and private sessions, face to face at their Bay Area practice or worldwide via phone and Skype.

Follow Alex S. Morgan on Facebook, on Twitter as @Alex_S_Morgan, on Instagram, on FetLife, or at http://AlexSMorgan.com